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Eating alone
Today while eating lunch at a restaurant I found on Google Maps (I always use this app to compare reviews and make a choice where to eat), I was reflecting on the things I´m used to doing by myself.
Like eating lunch.
Normally, I eat lunch at home, with my wife and daughter.
But often, I´m traveling somewhere to perform a concert. Like today, I´m performing a concert in the evening and have been away since yesterday.
Just today, I realized that it´s very uncommon for a restaurant to have a single client on a table. At least here in Spain, it is.
I have to say that I enjoy my times of solitude.
It gives me the opportunity to reflect on many things. I´d much rather be by myself than have meaningless conversations with people.
Not that all conversations are meaningless, of course.
But often, they are.
I´ve never been too good around people. I don’t think of myself as an introvert, but I´m a person of few words.
(Funny that I write a newsletter, huh?)
It´s just that I hate speaking for the sake of speaking. I prefer silence to that. If there´s nothing meaningful or intelligent to be said, I get immediately bored and want to get out of the situation. Must be that I lack some social skills.
I did enjoy my lunch very much today, and had the opportunity to fully concentrate on the flavor and the effort that the cook put into this beautiful and delicious plate. I probably wouldn´t have fully appreciated this if I had been talking with someone at the same time.
So, today I´m grateful for this special moment by myself.
Have a great day.
Claudio.
P.D. I released an album yesterday, it´s called “Efímero” and you can listen to it by clicking here.